Progress of one year swimming as an overweight 40 year old woman with a really demanding job from my first swim to yesterday

My job is incredibly demanding—60-80 hours a week during the busy season (about six months) and 40-50 hours the rest of the year. Over the past decade, my health took a serious hit. I was constantly stressed, overweight, depressed, and completely burned out. A year ago, I finally decided I had to make a change—at the very least, I needed to start getting some exercise.

As a kid, I had always enjoyed swimming—not competitively, just for fun. I remembered learning the basic strokes in high school PE, and since high-impact exercises like running weren’t ideal for my weight, swimming seemed like the best option. Plus, working out in water meant I wouldn’t overheat as easily, which had always made exercise miserable for me.

So, I got a gym membership, reserved a lane in the small pool, and gave it a shot. I walked in feeling self-conscious, trying to slip into the water as quickly and discreetly as possible. As you can see from my first workout photo—I barely lasted 30 minutes and had to constantly switch strokes because I was exhausting myself. My 100-yard time? A solid eight minutes. :rofl:

But I stuck with it. I squeezed in lane reservations whenever I could between work calls, making sure to swim at least four times a week. Gradually, I increased my distance, bit by bit.

When I finally reached 1,000 yards (a mix of strokes, since I still couldn’t freestyle the whole way without stopping), I treated myself to a waterproof MP3 player—basically a waterproof iPod Shuffle, if anyone remembers those. Listening to music helped me zone out and enjoy the swim, especially since the pool was usually noisy in the afternoons, which was often the only time I could book a lane.

Then, during one random swim, something clicked. A Jimmy Eat World song on my MP3 player was just slightly faster than my usual freestyle pace. I realized that if I timed my strokes to the beats on the 2s and 4s, I could push myself harder. That night, I looked up the song’s BPM, then loaded my MP3 player with music at that tempo. GAME CHANGER. The difference was obvious—just look at the progress between photos two and three. I shaved 30 seconds off my 100-yard time!

It gave me a goal: keep up with the music. I started alternating between swimming eight lengths freestyle and two lengths breaststroke, determined to work my way up to freestyling the entire distance.

And finally, I hit 1,000 yards…

Well done

Indie said:
Well done

Thanks I’m really proud of myself I’ve never been into exercise or sports so this is big for me

Ori said:

Indie said:
Well done

Thanks I’m really proud of myself I’ve never been into exercise or sports so this is big for me

Absolutely and what’s even cooler is that way fewer people can do what you just did compared to like running 5 kilometers or whatever I’m an open water swimmer and I love getting people into the ocean sorry but you should look if there are open water groups near you it’s a great vibe

@Indie
I would love that I live in Chicago so Lake Michigan is definitely an option when it gets warmer

Ori said:
@Indie
I would love that I live in Chicago so Lake Michigan is definitely an option when it gets warmer

Hey I’m in Chicago too and I have a couple friends I swim with Haven’t tried open water yet but I’d love to

Ori said:

Indie said:
Well done

Thanks I’m really proud of myself I’ve never been into exercise or sports so this is big for me

As you should be Speaking from experience adults who start exercising for the first time often end up healthier through most of their lives than many former high school athletes Just keep going

Congrats on your progress I’m inspired but you talk unkindly about yourself when you were starting out The world can be rough on overweight people You obviously know how it feels to be self-conscious about your body Maybe you’ve even been mistreated because of your weight Don’t be tough on yourself like that

@Cliff
Fair I would never talk about or think about anyone else like that I’ve always been way harder on myself than I would be on anyone else

Ori said:
@Cliff
Fair I would never talk about or think about anyone else like that I’ve always been way harder on myself than I would be on anyone else

Well you don’t deserve that You deserve to be kind to yourself Your body carried you through long hours It was doing what it needed to do to keep up with a tough work schedule until you made changes to take better care of yourself It did a good job and now it’s back in your control What a great body

Congrats this is really motivating Did you use a fitness watch to keep track

Arin said:
Congrats this is really motivating Did you use a fitness watch to keep track

Yeah this was all automatically recorded from my Apple Watch To be honest for the first six months I didn’t even know what any of the data meant

Your heart and lungs thank you

Skye said:
Your heart and lungs thank you

No doubt I don’t get high heart alerts from my watch when I’m stressed anymore

Hell yes you are kicking some serious butt

Congratulations I started swimming again last summer after being away for decades so I can relate to what you’ve experienced The first day back I swam 300 yards Now I’m up to 1500 yards three days a week The thing that really caught my eye was reserved a lane I’d like to do that

Awesome job I’m really excited for you great progress

Amazing

What an accomplishment Congrats

Fantastic Music really helps in this way It helps with running too I make playlists that start out slow and then have the highest BPM tracks near the end

I have more energy I feel less stressed and I have way less back pain It is so meditative My swims are my happy place

Same